Do You Want to Know What to Do
When A Good Relationship Goes Bad?

Would You Like Information That will Help You to
Deal With Domestic Violence, Family Violence,
Spousal Abuse and Battering?
 

Hi,

My name is Cleon Athill.  Take your mind back to when you were a child. Can you remember thinking about how your life would be as an adult?  I can. I remember thinking of having a good life: money to buy the things I want, a nice house, fine clothes, going on vacations to exotic places, a man who loves and respect me…a good life!

I know that you are no different from me, because I know that all of us, regardless of our circumstances, look to the future with great anticipation and hope. So I know that when you looked into the future you saw a rainbow. 

And then one day you realized that the future had come. You are an adult. Where did the years go? Life from here looks differently and feels differently from how it looked back there as a child.

You feel trapped in your life: you are unhappy, and uncertain as to just what happened. Your relationship is a source of pain. The man whom you love is cruel, uncaring and unsupportive. He is the one causing you the pain through abusive behaviors and attitudes. You feel afraid, alone and ashamed. Some life… uh!

Well, yes, some life…just some. ‘Some’ can represent a small part of the whole.

So let’s talk about the whole. You have your whole life ahead of you. So as you stand in your spot now, look into the future and see it as you want it to be. Feel, now how you want to feel then. Feel, the joy, the strength, the power... These are your feelings and they are authentic. Feel the resolve…..feel the commitment to step into a different tomorrow.

You are now an adult, not a child. You have many resources that you can use to shape your future just the way you want it. By searching the internet for helpful resources you have started to do just that.

Here are list of things you need to do right now:

1. Make a list of the pros and cons of staying in the relationship/marriage.

2. Meditate on what is really keeping you back from moving forward.

3. Focus on the feelings you have now... and then decide on whether those feelings are helping or hurting. For example, are those feelings keeping you stuck where you are. (Feelings such as: fear, loneliness, anger, self-pity, abandonment...)

4. Decide what types of feelings would propel you forward. (Feelings such as: courage, fear for your safety, disgust, hope, 'anger', love of your children, self-love...)

5. Make a list of at least 20 things that you could do to move forward. Do not stop until you have at least 20 things... then put them in order of priority.

6. Imagine that you are a counselor who works with women who are in situations like yours. Write a letter to one of your clients listing the reasons why she should consider moving forward. Mail the letter.

7. Yes... mail the letter to yourself.

8. Do an internet search... and read everything you can find on domestic violence, family violence, spousal abuse, battered women, psychological abuse, male batterers, why women stay in violent relationships, steps to take to get out of domestic violence - read everything that you can. The information is free... and scattered. But there is lots of information on the internet. There are several helpful links a few paragraphs down and more at the bottom of this page that you can click on. There is no obligation to purchase anything.

9. Now... write a persuasive argument on why you should make a change!

10. If you feel that you need all the information in one place, with key information on what to do and how to do it, then I suggest that you click here and: Get Help for Domestic Violence and Abuse.

Use Help for Domestic Violence and Abuse to assist you in getting ready to move forward; use it to develop the skills that you need to empower yourself. Use it to help you access your internal and external resources. Use it to assist you in finding HELP.

Use it to make your action plan... and then to act on your plan!!!

Congratulations on coming this far.  The journey ahead is long and may be both rough and tough. You are worth the effort! Reach out and take my hand, let me journey with you.

Read the resources outlined several places below. And then if you feel you need additional information, or you need to have all the information in one place without having to be on the internet all the time, then I recommend that you Get Help for Domestic Violence and Abuse.

 

Here is some information to start you on your journey to personal empowerment:

Domestic Violence Links & Resources

Now that you have read some key information on domestic violence and spousal abuse, does are any of the following issues of interest to you?

When a good relationship begins to go bad... Know exactly what you have to do... and how you have to do it... Learn all the steps you must take to protect yourself and your children.

Free yourself now from violent and abusive relationships.
Learn what keeps people stuck in violent and abusive relationships! Learn how to free yourself - for good!

Feel safer and more secure. Feel more in control... Take charge and move on towards a better quality of life. Learn how to get away from domestic abuse!

And your children? Be more confident that they will be safe... Take the steps outlined in this eBook. Protect your family from abuse.

Learn how to make THE decision that may save your life... even if it is uncomfortable now to do so. Learn how to walk away from the abusive relationship.

Get a safety plan (elements of which you can personalize and fit to your specific situation) with eight key strategies on how to free yourself. Whether you call it domestic abuse, family violence, or spousal abuse... this is a difficult and potentially life threatening problem... get the information you need.

You will know how to be safe during most incidents involving family violence, how to be safe in your home, how to be safe when you are preparing to leave and much more...

Learn how to move from being victimized, to surviving and then to a thriving life.
 

Learn how to take care of your emotional health and discover the critical benefits of therapy, and get three powerful therapeutic resources. Learn how to deal with the types of psychological trauma involved in spousal and intimate partner abuse.

Explore why women stay in abusive and violent relationships. Understand the steps you must take to get away now... stay away... and keep staying away... no matter what!
 

 

Get a thorough examination of domestic/family violence/abuse statistics and realities.

Knowledge is power: You will understand that you are not alone - and that it is not your fault! You will uncover and shatter the myths and misinformation that have held you back in the past! Know the truth about healing yourself!

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If you have doubts about someone with whom you are building a relationship... here is the information you need. If you are already in an abusive relationship, you will get the confirmation that you didn't want: That you are involved in a relationship with a violent abuser - and that your life may be in danger! You can get the facts. Start now.

Examine the database of International resources: Hotlines, help-lines and shelters by country, state, counties and cities.

Feel informed! Know exactly where to call when you really need help. You will have access to a directory that you can always consult!

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Learn what to do, when to do it, and how to protect yourself.

Learn how to take charge... empower yourself, move on and embrace the future.

Move from Hurt to Hope and then to Heal!

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